How To Lead A Youth Group | Post 3 | "Young Person" Is Not A Noun

3. Expect Greatness not Perfection.
When people say the words "young people" they are really saying "youngpeople." One word, as a noun. Try it, out loud say young people the way you would normally say it. Why does this matter? Because when you say "youngpeople" instead of young people, you change the meaning of the words.

Youngpeople are a kind of quazi-human creature that are outside of the realm of normal expectations. On one hand we don't expect a whole lot from them. We're just glad they come to church and don't have drugs in their pocket. On the other hand we expect perfection from them. "The 'youngpeople' should be the supreme example of what a person should be as a Christian. Their friends and family and the entire world are watching them and may be turned away from God if these "youngpeople" don't do it exactly right." I am exxagerating (a little) but you get the point.

Let's look at the term the way we should, though. They are young, and they are people. I'm not trying to be sarcastic and yes, I know this is a simple concept, but it could change the way you relate to your "youngpeople."

They are young. This means they aren't going to have a lot of wisdom because they haven't lived long enough to develop it. It means they are going to trust freely (for a while) and trust the wrong people and the right people. They are going to be fiercely loyal to their ideas, their music, their friends and the other things that make up their identity. They are going to be reckless and impulsive. The reason they are is because they don't have a lot to lose. All of the investment has been from their parents. That's not wrong or abnormal, it's youth. Think maybe God designed them like that so they would be willing to go out and change the world? Do you remember when you thought you could do anything? They are going to be passionate. Your job isn't to shut this all down and make them like you, they are not miniature adults, they don't think like you because they don't have all of the risks you have. Your job is to help them harness all of this energy and power, yes power, and point them in the right direction so they can make a difference in their world.

They are people. They are going to do amazing things, normal things and incredibly stupid things. They are going to be subject to their emotions, peer pressure (you still are), ups and downs and everything else everybody goes through. Don't put them in the "youngpeople" category and limit them to that paradigm. They are people, created by God for a purpose with a capacity for greatness, but the propensity for failure. Expect greatness, but don't expect perfection.